CYBER BULLYING

Cyberbullying is using technology such as instant messages, text messages, emails, blogs and websites to intimidate, harass, belittle and hurt people.  Recent studies show that cyberbullying is a real threat and that 30% of all children face bullying online. Most victims of cyberbullying never speak to anyone about the bullying, not even parents and friends.  Because cyberbullying is online and the bully can remain anonymous, the victim can feel overwhelmed and helpless.  Here are seven Do’s and Don’ts that can protect you and your family from the negative realities of cyber bullies.

·     Don’t Retaliate – Bullies are looking for a fight and it will only escalate matters. Plus, returning blow for blow may get you into legal trouble

·     Do Respond Calmly – Consider a calm sensible way to respond.  The bully should be asked to stop the harassment and informed that you are comfortable reporting the abuse to the appropriate authorities.

·     Do Use Filters – Email, chat and website filters can be very effective in shielding you and your family from the dangers of cyber bullies.

·     Do Make Changes – If the bullying continues, simply stop visiting those forums, change your email, modify your IM and change your cell phone number.  Service providers are willing and eager to help protect you from cyberbullying.  Remember, if the bully can’t find you, he can’t harass you.

·     Do Contact Proper Authorities – If changing your contact information is not an option, then don’t be afraid to report the abuse. If you believe a real physical threat has been made then report it to the police.

·     Do Contact Parents – If the cyber bully is a minor, don’t hesitate to contact his parents if possible.  Remember to be polite and calm, while making sure to not leave out any facts.

·     Do Keep Records – You should keep records of every bullying incident in the event that legal action is required or proof of the bullying is needed.